tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post4234846247035389682..comments2023-09-17T08:25:04.078-04:00Comments on A Thousand Oceans: the embryo transfer bluesA.http://www.blogger.com/profile/00949343025406168591noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-87537116929607891282012-05-28T17:15:18.248-04:002012-05-28T17:15:18.248-04:00I know you get it. It is really hard, but I also k...I know you get it. It is really hard, but I also know I will be over the moon if I find myself in a healthy low-risk singleton pregnancy.A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00949343025406168591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-59050525729191672962012-05-28T17:14:04.003-04:002012-05-28T17:14:04.003-04:00Thanks, Ducky. I have been thinking of you a lot a...Thanks, Ducky. I have been thinking of you a lot and sending lots of good vibes that your cycle gets off to go a smooth start!A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00949343025406168591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-5018837698750485602012-05-28T17:13:14.078-04:002012-05-28T17:13:14.078-04:00Thanks DB. You have been in my thoughts constantly...Thanks DB. You have been in my thoughts constantly - always hoping this is your lucky cycle!A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00949343025406168591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-23602632057587089972012-05-26T21:44:33.328-04:002012-05-26T21:44:33.328-04:00Hello from ICLW! So sorry for your loss. :(Hello from ICLW! So sorry for your loss. :(One and Done?https://www.blogger.com/profile/12138505446552865273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-78803560256247518752012-05-26T20:25:40.258-04:002012-05-26T20:25:40.258-04:00Sending good luck to you this cycle. My first IVF ...Sending good luck to you this cycle. My first IVF cycle after I lost my twins was so tough. Sending lots of hugs your way.butterfly843https://www.blogger.com/profile/00776592053579364693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-43079897702743742542012-05-26T07:57:10.905-04:002012-05-26T07:57:10.905-04:00I'm so sorry this is so difficult. I think you...I'm so sorry this is so difficult. I think your feelings make perfect sense...just wanted you to know that you're still in my thoughts and prayers. I hope this cycle surprises you and brings you a BFP!Mrs. Ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14442574272607877031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-69281046528110706102012-05-26T04:44:35.233-04:002012-05-26T04:44:35.233-04:00I'm sorry that TTC is bringing up your grief ....I'm sorry that TTC is bringing up your grief .... Good luck trying to give your angel twins a sibling!!!<br /><br />Happy ICLW from #3 :)MoonNStarMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14105390387268299310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-26212731993863698702012-05-26T00:22:27.695-04:002012-05-26T00:22:27.695-04:00Hi from ICLW. I'm so sorry for the loss of yo...Hi from ICLW. I'm so sorry for the loss of your twins. I hope this cycle works and you can move forward with the rest of your plans and out of limbo. It's a terrible place to be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-17393472209173816862012-05-25T16:08:32.208-04:002012-05-25T16:08:32.208-04:00Hi from ICLW
I have to admit I read back pretty f...Hi from ICLW<br /><br />I have to admit I read back pretty far - I am so sorry about your loss, even though I know that doesn't really help. I truly hope that this cycle brings you some peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-60310800000589841872012-05-24T20:57:04.374-04:002012-05-24T20:57:04.374-04:00So sorry you are going through so much at once. I ...So sorry you are going through so much at once. I am hoping and praying this little embie digs in deep and sticks around for a long long time.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-53582411127127687622012-05-24T20:43:59.598-04:002012-05-24T20:43:59.598-04:00Oh hun... I'm so sorry that you're going t...Oh hun... I'm so sorry that you're going through this now - I'm keeping up hope for your 2WW and have my FXd for you. I know what you mean when you say "Every action we take to make a new baby is a reminder of the babies who were supposed to be here with us right now"... I often think that about Gabrielle. Be gentle on yourself... you're doing everything you can in very difficult circumstances xoxoDandelionBreezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988561541523178095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-73222013649674670972012-05-24T20:27:24.384-04:002012-05-24T20:27:24.384-04:00I'm so sorry about the loss of your twins. I c...I'm so sorry about the loss of your twins. I can't imagine how painful that is. You have every right to feel the way that you do, anyone in your situation would feel the same. I hope this transfer can bring a little light into your life.<br /><br />ICLW #26Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-59664390915984199602012-05-24T17:20:22.134-04:002012-05-24T17:20:22.134-04:00I had a lot of the same feelings when we embarked ...I had a lot of the same feelings when we embarked upon our first IVF after the loss of our twins. We also grappled with the eSET idea, especially difficult because our embryos could only be thawed per tube, and there were two to a tube (nothing is ever straightforward, is it!). Going through the process again, there were still feelings of disbelief of being back taking all the meds, in the stirrups...when you thought you'd be sleepless caring for two little ones at this time. Sending you and your bubble embryo positive energy and strength!<br />BGBGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08273199801881969896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-90590510411200584492012-05-24T12:54:52.105-04:002012-05-24T12:54:52.105-04:00Here from ICLW. I'm so sorry to hear about you...Here from ICLW. I'm so sorry to hear about your twins. Don't appologize for how you're feeling; you have every right to feel anger, sadness, hopefulness... whatever you feel like feeling!Emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16504470796308296750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-84889070303458986942012-05-24T08:11:34.266-04:002012-05-24T08:11:34.266-04:00Your feelings make so much sense! I am praying for...Your feelings make so much sense! I am praying for you and your embies!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-65939254071456272932012-05-24T07:21:09.046-04:002012-05-24T07:21:09.046-04:00I found you from Adrift on a Dandelion Breeze, I&#...I found you from Adrift on a Dandelion Breeze, I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby girls! I just wanted to let you know that I was on the wrong side of the statistics during my last pregnancy more than I was on the right... but have a beautiful three month old baby boy sleeping beside me right now! He was also IVF, and I lost my Kristen at 22wks a year and a half ago (IVF as well) I'll be keeping you and your embryos in my thoughts!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-45726515810999051482012-05-24T06:44:00.263-04:002012-05-24T06:44:00.263-04:00So much going on. I'm sorry that it's so h...So much going on. I'm sorry that it's so hard right now, I do hope that despite the bleak odds given - this little embie stick around!marwilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14490542805154143307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-40530333567465511982012-05-23T23:43:10.017-04:002012-05-23T23:43:10.017-04:00"...everything I've been doing to try to ..."...everything I've been doing to try to make it happen feels like a form of punishment..." Ugh. I so get this. <br /><br />Sending peace and warmth to you and your tiny embryos. Hoping your dreams come true so soon.Melissa Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04150534738341942742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-58132237977952196832012-05-23T18:36:27.642-04:002012-05-23T18:36:27.642-04:00Thinking of you and hoping for the best. xoxoThinking of you and hoping for the best. xoxoMelissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06469312664920124105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-74302935545009775722012-05-23T18:03:45.292-04:002012-05-23T18:03:45.292-04:00Wow, sweetie...you've got a lot on your plate!...Wow, sweetie...you've got a lot on your plate! Please try your best to take it easy. I'm hoping and praying that your little guy decides to snuggle in for the long-haul!Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15326761121201314233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-53676564378830587102012-05-23T15:23:40.017-04:002012-05-23T15:23:40.017-04:00Sending lots of love to you and the embryos. Hopin...Sending lots of love to you and the embryos. Hoping they surprise you.Timihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12814910313281878807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-83918420177108008772012-05-23T15:23:11.703-04:002012-05-23T15:23:11.703-04:00This is so hard. I will keep hope for you during t...This is so hard. I will keep hope for you during this time and pray that little embaby sticks around. I also know intimately how conflicting a SET can be. I wanted twins after losing mine...that was what I had envisioned...what I now wanted. But I knew it was a bad idea. So even though I would have been thrilled at another chance at twins, I went with my brain and did the safest thing. So I get it. It kind of feels like losing another dream you didn't realize you had.ADSchillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13972164121690415796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-79441790580255859162012-05-23T14:56:45.739-04:002012-05-23T14:56:45.739-04:00I'm sorry things aren't going the way you ...I'm sorry things aren't going the way you hoped. I'll keep my fingers crossed that this little one implants nicely and you don't have to worry about another transfer in the midst of a move. That would be very difficult, especially if you're on your own.<br /><br />Don't be too hard on yourself about feeling down. You've been through a lot, and you have a few big hurdles to go. I can relate to feeling overwhelmed and bouncing between optimism and pessimism (and not missing a feeling in between). Hang in there. You can do this.sass @ (In)fertility Unexplainedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06322070279032931788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-55187690358384434802012-05-23T14:51:55.389-04:002012-05-23T14:51:55.389-04:00Oh, there are so many emotions in this post: hopef...Oh, there are so many emotions in this post: hopefulness, anxiousness, sadness, fear. All of them completely understandable, considering all you've been through. I'm holding onto hope for you; for this cycle. Love and hugs.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2490179268765761075.post-65164375247585448082012-05-23T13:19:38.609-04:002012-05-23T13:19:38.609-04:00Oh my goodness, your feelings mirror mine so close...Oh my goodness, your feelings mirror mine so closely. Especially about the twins part. Not a day goes by that I don't think about where they would be right now if only mine had made it. My fingers are crossed that this cycle surprises you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09335353073249821723noreply@blogger.com